It would be nice to be able to configure the system tray icon notifications.

You can already do that: options > configure one-click tagging popups.

More specifically?

However, I would like to totally kill off the one that tells me Tabbles has started each time I boot up 😡 ;). I rank that one up there with the ‘are you sure you want to exit’ when I try to leave a game :roll:.

I am adding this to the todo list with low priority.